Her Husband's Affair Partner Was In Their House While They Were On A Trip Trying To Reconcile

If your spouse cheated on you, and then let their affair partner into your house while you were away and trying to save your marriage, would you be done?

This woman and her husband spent four months apart following her husband's affair. Several days ago, she moved back home, and they have attempted to reconcile, even though she found some questionable items that made her realize her husband was playing her and had his mistress staying over.

They actually took a trip to work on their marriage and celebrate their fresh start, but while they were away, she uncovered something infuriating.

"We had a good time together in various places we were at during our reconciliation trip. ​We danced; he was the man I always wanted him to be. Then the Ring doorbell revealed the truth: while he was away with me, the AP (Affair Partner) was in our house," she explained.

"My [wandering husband] claims I am insane, and even when presenting him with evidence of the lights in the kitchen going on and off, he claims it was my imagination."

The cameras were installed in their house three days before their trip, and her husband's affair partner slipped into their house through their garage, where there is no camera coverage.

Her husband had a live view of the camera feeds on his phone, and she thinks it's as if he was hoping for her to catch him inviting his affair partner over.

She thinks she has to be finished with him now, and he even brought a recorder to put in her room to try to catch her being unfaithful to him because he's not interested in paying her the money she's owed.

"I am honestly at a loss; I am numb, and any shred of connection or love for him is finally gone. I went from being his dream girl, his hot chick, ​his one and only for over 3 decades, to being punched in the face with the reality of what he has done to me for all of these years, and how he is still doing it to me," she added.

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"During our trip, we were the talk of the town, many people coming up to us and saying how they were envious, and my [wandering husband] telling me how many men and women were staring at me and us."

"I don't like to toot my own horn, but I don't look my age, and I am very striking in all aspects of physical beauty and attraction. My [wandering husband] tells me this and says he would be a fool to jeopardize what he has. Go figure."

Her husband first cheated on her a year and a half ago, and she learned that he was unfaithful numerous times before that. She still was on the fence about filing for a divorce, especially after finding out something worrisome about her own health, which proved to be nothing bad.

So, although she's been married for three decades, this is the end, and she has to ultimately leave her husband. She was hoping, wishing, and waiting for him to change, but the evidence on the camera proves it won't be happening.

"It is what it is, and now I will divorce him and press on, no pomp or circumstances, no major gesture of grandeur, just a woman who once loved a man who didn't love her back," she concluded.

Oh boy, she definitely has to leave him for good, and I hope she finds a man who does deserve her!

What advice do you have for her?

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