Her Sister Got Engaged At Her Wedding Without Asking, Then Stole Her Photographer For A Photo Shoot

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By Bre Avery Zacharski Oct 08, 2026

Do you think it's unbelievably rude to get engaged at someone else's wedding without asking for their permission beforehand?

This woman got married several weeks ago, and she hired two wedding photographers to capture all of the special moments on her big day.

Having two photographers cost her a pretty penny, and they were honestly one of the things at her wedding that she spent the most money on.

While her cocktail hour was happening, she and her husband went with their main photographer to snap photos 10 minutes from where their venue was located.

That second photographer remained behind so that they could take photos of the guests.

"Apparently, my sister pulled her aside and asked if she could take a few pictures of her and her boyfriend by our ceremony arch. She told her I knew about it. I did not," she explained.

"Her boyfriend then proposed during those pictures. I found out the next morning because my sister posted several of them and thanked our photographer in the caption."

"I called her, and she admitted they had planned the proposal beforehand and figured our photographer was already there, so there was no point hiring someone else."

She was furious with her sister for not only lying to her face, but for stealing her wedding photographer to benefit from a free engagement photoshoot.

Alexandr - stock.adobe.com - illustrative purposes only, not the actual person - pictured above is a bride in front of a lake

So, now she's holding the remaining photos from the gallery hostage until her sister gives her $250 to help pay for the photographer.

Her sister thinks she's being crazy since she already paid for the photographer and her taking those extra photos didn't cost her anything more than what was already budgeted for.

"My mom agrees with her and says asking my own sister for money over 10 minutes of pictures is petty," she concluded.

She's left wondering if it's wrong of her to want her sister to contribute money for the photographer after the stunt she pulled.

I think that's only fair! Her sister was so rude to do this to her, and I wouldn't dream of trying to steal the spotlight at my sister's wedding like that.

I also think she needs to have a conversation with her photographer because this was totally unprofessional of them. Maybe she can get them to refund her the $250 if her sister won't pay her.

What do you think?

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By Bre Avery Zacharski Oct 08, 2026

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